I am just wondering can somebody give me advise on what contraceptive would be best? I have tried a lot and still I am not satisfied with them as they have side effects that really annoys me and my partner. Any suggestion would be fine here. Thank you.

geoff - 28 May 2008 09:07 PM

I am just wondering can somebody give me advise on what contraceptive would be best? I have tried a lot and still I am not satisfied with them as they have side effects that really annoys me and my partner. Any suggestion would be fine here. Thank you.

As a guy, what kind of contraceptives are you using? If a condom, I assume your side effects are that it's too tight and falls off, in which case I suggest Magnum condoms, or perhaps you are very small "down there" and the condoms slip off of you; maybe there are mini-condoms?

What kind of side effects are you having? And what contraceptives have you been using?

Anybody use the male pill; I forget the name of it.

Although you can get a suggestion by discussing this forum, but i will suggest you to take an expert help in this regard. You are already a victim of side-effects. What is the guarantee that things, which have worked on us, will work on you too.. Your physician will be "the best man for the job".

I also feel the same as Vivian, Geoff. You cannot take a chance with your body systems on any day. Its not only stupid, but dangerous too. Go for a physician, he / she will help you better....

If you're talking oral contraceptives, then I use Yasmin. It is presumably the most natural birth control pill, and the only side effect that I had when I first started taking it was one urinary tract infection. Nothing since.

Why not just use condoms? They have like no side effects and can offer protection just as good as birth control pills that cause soooo many side effects.

The ultra thin condoms are excellent if you desire a more "real" , fleshy sensation

Now, now, Geoff might be a female! Geoff, I would recommend one of the new products that are out whereby you only have two to three periods a year. One such contraceptive has the ingredient drospirenone and ethinyl estradiolr. You will have fewer periods and it treats pre-menstrual symptoms as well.

Before trying any method it is best to ask for medical help first. It is very important to discuss them what you prefer and ask for any side effects. In that way your doctor can discuss everything and will help you decide.

Emergency Contraception


Emergency contraception is a form of birth control that is often used to prevent a woman from getting pregnant in the event of unprotected sexual intercourse, nonconsensual sexual episodes like rape or Incest or when other methods of birth control fail.
When is emergency contraception used?
• To prevent pregnancy
• In unprotected sex
• Nonconsensual sexual episodes
• When other methods of birth control fail


Types of emergency contraception
The two types of emergency contraception are Intrauterine Device (IUD) and birth control pills or "the morning-after pills".
Types of emergency contraception
• Intrauterine device (IUD)
• Birth control pills or "the morning-after pills"


Types of IUDs
There are quite a few types of IUDs but the most popular are the hormonal IUD and the copper IUD. IUDs have to be inserted by your doctor.
Types of IUDs
• Hormone IUD - effective for 5 years
• Copper IUD - effective for 10 years


How do the IUDs work?

Hormonal IUDs


• Progestin causes the thickening of the muscles of the cervix thereby preventing the
sperm from entering the cervix.
• Progestin also makes the sperm less active so that it does not fertilize the egg.
• IUD prevents the fertilized egg from implanting itself on the wall of the uterus.


Copper IUDs
Copper IUDs too have different methods of preventing pregnancy
• The copper released by this type of IUD prevents the sperm from fertilizing an egg.
• If at all an egg is fertilized it prevents the fertilized egg from sticking to the uterine wall.
The IUD will have to be placed inside your vagina by your doctor within 5 days of the sexual episode to maximize its effects.
The hormonal IUD must be changed every 5 years. The copper IUD can stay in your body for as long as 10 years.
What are birth control pills made of?
Emergency contraception pills often referred to as 'the morning after pills' are usually made of hormones such as progestin and estrogen or progestin alone. These Hormones are similar to the ones secreted in the female body. The progestin-alone method is more effective and is less likely to cause nausea.

Intrauterine device

• IUD is particularly useful for women who find it difficult to take
birth control pills.
• An IUD can be left inside the vagina for long term use.
• IUDs do not protect you from sexually transmitted diseases.

Points to remember about IUDs

• Useful, if birth pills are uncomfortable.
• UDs can be put to long-term use
• IUDs do not prevent STDs.

There are pills available that you can take just in case you have unprotected sex for like less than 24 hours but you have to take 2 to 3 pills at the same time. Anyway, I don’t know much about this and I hope someone can explain more about it.

I'd rather take the morning after pills. I'm not so open to the doctor putting something in me that'll stay there for years. I dont know it kinda creeps me out.

Condom works and has no side effects compare to contraceptive pills, that women suffers of course.

I personally use a low dose hormonal contraceptives and i havent noticed any side effects, i swear.
but if you really want no side effects on your girlfriend, just get em condoms, k?
That's the safest contraceptive, side-effects-wise.

Me, too. I prefer non-intrusive methods.

It's good that I'm on the pill already so no need to worry about emergencies like this. I'd wanna say that this is best for teens who are not going steady but find themselves getting really intimate with a date....but no! Be safe not sorry.

If you don't mind what contraceptive and side effects did you experience?

Geoff:

One of the best 'natural' contraceptives available is as follows:

Have your girlfriend hold a nickle coin between her knees until the moment passes. Guaranteed! She won't get pregnant!!



(Uhhh, you guys realize this is just a sample of my demented humor, don't you?)

Charlie in Arizona
The Herbalist

Where can i get emergency contraceptive?

In some countries prescription is required but in some states in U.S. such as California and Washington it's available over the counter.

Anybody here who has tried injectibles? Are they safe? I'm kinda hesitant about not having my period for three months. It's like I'm interrupting a healthy process in my body.

I heard that although it really keeps you safe, an injectible contraception could cause complications. A friend experienced chest tightening constantly ever since she started with the injectible.

Severe side-effects of Net-En and Depo-Provera include menstrual disorders, cessation of the monthly cycle or irregular bleeding, general weakness, migraine headaches, and severe abdominal cramps. Studies have shown that injectable contraceptives like Depo-Provera can also lead to osteoporosis. Depo-Provera has been indicted for climacteric-like syndrome; irreversible atrophy of the ovaries and endometrium; deaths due to thrombo-embolism; increased risk of HIV infection from an infected partner; increased risk of Down Syndrome in babies born to women users; increased chances of still births; increase in the risk of breast cancer, cervical cancer including carcinoma in situ; doubts regarding the return of fertility after discontinuation of the drug, and so on.

It is still best to consult your OB-GYN about what contraceptive is safe to take.

I agree, it is best to consult your OB-GYN but it doesn't hurt to know all the facts so that you are able to ask questions about the concerns of injectible contraceptives.

Do Net-en and Depo-proveda are prescribed meds or can be bought over the counter?